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    Do You Hate Being Ignored?

    iLeo Jul 19, 2013

    1. iLeo

      iLeo New Chatter

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      I've gotten out of school about two months ago, May 31st. And Thursday May 30th I told this girl how I felt about her, I texted her that same day just so things aren't awkward. I texted her back Monday June 3rd, and no answer.

      My friends and I were going to play volleyball, and that's her favorite sport.So I thought to myself, okay I'll try one more time and invite her to play. She never came, I invited her Thursday, and June 14th.

      My best friend who is also friends with her, asked her if we are still friends. And she said yes.. Some friends, huh?

      I know she's doing this on purpose. Cause she's always updating her facebook, and she texts other people.

      I'm done trying, I deleted her off my contact list.
       
    2. Damian

      Damian Quiet Chatter

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      You did the right thing. Or you could go and tell her your feelings face to face if you want. This way she won't be able to ignore you. I hate being ignored too.
       
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      Thanks. I did tell her how I felt face to face the second to last day of school. I thought she liked me, but I guess not cause she never replied to me, lol. This is one of the reasons why I hate texting, I'd rather talk in person :\ Being ignored is a terrible feeling.
       
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      'yeah. I think for these situations face to face is the first approach.

      She is ignoring your texts probably because she can't come with a way to reject you without losing your friendship and overall avoiding you because she feels atm awkward. That's my guess, anyway.
       
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      Grungie Raging Alcoholic

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      Just don't end up like the guy in the Denko story

      [​IMG]
       
    6. Shortie861

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      I also hate being ignored myself but I feel you did the right thing iLeo. Some people are just not worth it especially if they are ignoring you on purpose which I think is rude and it does not do peoples confidence any good at all.

      Oh I have had this happen and it was not because I was ignoring the person that was doing it but purely that I had not gone online to see their message until a little later on and they assumed I was ignoring them, which is probably from loss of confidence after being ignored by others.
       
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      I've had a similar problem. This was before I had a smartphone, but someone sent me a message on Facebook asking about something, and I apparently didn't check it fast enough, so he then calls me up saying "hey, did you check my message?????"
       
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      Yeah shortie861, I've gotten over her quickly , which surprised myself.

      What anime is your avatar from ? @Grungie
       
    9. Grungie

      Grungie Raging Alcoholic

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      Well this is off topic, but it's from A Certain Scientific Railgun
       
    10. robertson123

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      Being ignored by someone just makes you think they are not intrested in you i hate people in general who ignore you for no reason
       
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      It's only logical. It's not our problem they're stupid. :cool:
       
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