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    How to deal with Cheating?

    Naiwen Feb 17, 2012

    1. Naiwen

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      So yeah, got many threads about people who got cheated on and stuff. So yeah, I'd like to know, how do you deal with it when you're cheated on? I've never been in a relationship yet, so I haven't been cheated on yet. XDD What about you? Have you been in this situation and how have you handled it?
       
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      haven't experienced it myself, but all I can say is try to remain calm and talk about it rationally.
       
    3. Naiwen

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      easier said than done.
       
    4. Smokey

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      Naiwen is right, it's easier said then done. I've learned to just accept it. Go your separate ways and move on. Yes it hurts like all hell for awhile but eventually you get over it and move onto someone else. The way you need to look at it is, if you were cheated on, you did nothing wrong, it's just the person you were with wasn't the right one for you because when you find the right person for you, they'll stand by you regardless and won't cheat on you. :)
       
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      thats a bit utopic I think. I don't think there's a right person for me though. XDD
       
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      Funny you say that, I feel the same way about myself. :p
       
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      so you don't think theres a soulmate out there, waiting for you? I mean, a person who wouldn't cheat on you and who would remain loyal and faithful to you forever.
       
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      Probably not, no.Whenever I think I've found that person, they prove otherwise. This has happened quite often for me so I'm at the point where I just don't trust anyone (other then myself) anymore. So if there is someone like that out there for me, I'd probably never know.
       
    9. Naiwen

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      lol, probably me, nah, kidding.
       
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      Pfft well fine, be that way! *pouts* lol. :p
       
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      lol, but yeah, you can't possibly like me, since you never saw my face, lol. XDDD joking, joking. XDD unless, you really wish to date me? I kid, I kid.
       
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      Can't be any worse then that time I dated Sarah Jessica Parker. :-p *family guy-like reference to one of my exes* :p hahaha
       
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      whos jessica, I got competition it seems, lol.
       
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      I find the whole soulmate thing a joke.
       
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      does it ring a bell, like edward in twilight? twilight seemed so fake to me, yet I still somewhat enjoyed it.
       
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      There is no Jessica, that was the joke. LOL :p

      and yes I suppose you do got competition hun :p What ya gonna do to stand out from the other fish in the sea? :p ;)
       
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      nothing, XDDDD because its an internet relationship. XDD
       
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      LOL. Yeah was only teasing you hun. :p
       
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      me too was kinda, so I'd suppose this fake Jessica cheated on you? XDD
       
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      Yes. :p