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    i dont know what to think anymore

    Rachel Feb 15, 2012

    1. Rachel

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      ive been seeing this guy for bout a year and lately hes been distant...and all day today hes not said a word for me...ive forgiven him for past incidents but what do i do.....i dnt know what to think bout him anymore


      that pic is me and him...we look so happy idk whats happened to that
       

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      Have you tried talking to him to see whether or not he is willing to open up and tell you what is wrong?

      Sometimes relationships go through a phase where things don't seem as great anymore and sometimes a break can help to work things out.

      I hope you get things sorted soon, you both look happy in that picture and look like a great couple.
       
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      Shortie is right,talk to him about how you feel,find out what he's thinking.
       
    4. Rachel

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      hes been busy working lately...hes working on getting his papers right now

      everytime i try and talk to him he shuts down. when we were first together he would talk to me always have me over have me stay a couple days at a time...now i see him once a week....it sucks i cnt say that i love him but it kills me not seeing him...he says one thing thru texts and waht not then when i see him he does something totally different and unexpected(in a good way) we also always argue and bicker thru messages before he comes over sometimes then when he gets here its soooo different he loves on my wants to lay down and snuggle and gives me kisses...idk what to think honestly
       
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      Lack of communication, have you tried to initiate the contact? Hes so handsome. Only way to settle this down is to call him or something.
       
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      Naiwen trust me i have...always asking him to come over or to meet me and hes usually working....it sucks but he needs money to pay child support
       
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      a man with a package then, that kinda would kinda ruin your relationship with him. Same thing when a man who's in a relationship with woman who's got children so yeah.
       
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      I can actually relate to that in some kind of way to be honest as I know a guy just like that :) however we have a huge gap in distance and we are only friends but he works alot and sometimes will be really off with me but I get a few random messages from him which are sweet and shows that he still cares but then he goes to the being off with me again which kinda sucks. We are only friends but when you care about someone it's hard to have to wait before you can talk to them.

      I found that a good way to make it better on yourself and also help any kind of relationship whether it be a boyfriend/girlfriend kind or a friendship kind is to maybe not blank them but so to speak have some space try and not talk to him for a while and see whether or not that helps with the situation if speaking to him isn't helping. Sometimes guys don't always want to say how they feel and it's not a bad thing but can't help you if you are wondering why they are being like that, sometimes it's better for them to come to you and tell you if there is anything wrong rather than them being asked.

      Working alot obviously can also have it's strain especially if it makes them feel tired and they really don't want to be dealing with drama and the such after all that. My friend is like that works all day and then doesn't really want any kind of drama when he gets home or when he has time off.
       
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      How long have ya'll been dating?
       
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      well Shortie hes coming over to dinner tonight so were gunna sit down and talk and Carrie were not really dating anymore but we were datiing for bout 6ish mnths were still super chill with one another now
       
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      Oh Okay. But i do agree with the others. :)
       
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      yeahh i do too
       
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      That is great :) I hope all goes well for you and he opens up to you a little more just to help things out a little :)
       
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      hes coming over in like an hr. cant wait. lol he better let me finish eating first
       
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      oh thats good for you then. XDD
       
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      well he ended up falling asleep i was too tired by the time he was suppose to come come over anyways
       
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      that sucks for you then.
       
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      oh well saved me a lil bit of fighting anyways lol i had fun hanging out with my friend today
       
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      lol, you guys always fight? thats sad.
       
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      we do when were not together but when were hanging o ut we dnt