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    is it bad?

    Rachel Feb 16, 2012

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      is it bad that ive been single for bout 6ish months give or take and im already considering dating again? only reason i ask is cuz theres this guy ive been talking to for bout a yr now give or take and (yes i did meet him when i was with my ex) were going to hang out tomorrow just as friend but i have a feeling that this new guy wants more then just a friendship out of me?

      this new guy is more then i could ever ask for but also hes recently divorced as of like 6mnths ago(coincident much?) and hes just been the sweetest thing ever to me been there thru my s**t as a friend and i been there thru his s**t
       
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      I wouldn't say it is a bad thing no after 6 months of being single at all. I would meet him see how things go and then take it from there with the whole relationship if he is wanting that. I think if you let him know from first meeting him as a friend that you would like to take things slow to see how things go and he is an honest and genuine guy he more than likely would be happy with that, atleast then you know you are not rushing into anything that could end up breaking your heart.
       
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      yeahh im excited and nervous. main reason im going over actually is cuz hes mega into reptiles and just got a new snake that i wanna see
       
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      That sounds great :D not a big fan of snakes myself seeing one on the TV makes me go all weird and shaky lol.
       
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      haha i love them. non venemous ones that is. and the new one he got is bout 5ft right now and shes expected to get atleast 9ft long. mom wont let me have one til im outta the hhouse
       
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      Oh wow, 5ft that is quite scary :) that is how tall I am, couldn't imagine a snake that size even though I bet many snakes are that size if not bigger that I have seen on TV.
       
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      haha. snakes arent for everyone. i personally think they are beautiful creatures and havent held one in atleast 3 yrs and i finally have the chance so im takin it
       
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      got to hold his snakes today. it felt weeeeirrrrrd i want one now
       
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      I can imagine :) where they easy to handle? I always imagine a snake being really hard to handle because of how much they would wriggle.
       
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      actually they are very easy to handle. and they actually dnt wriggle around that much
       
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      That is surprising :) I think that when you see them on say animals shows on TV and other things on TV like movies they seem to wriggle ao much that you do wonder if they are like that :)
       
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      well it depends on th calmness of the snakes. the ones i held were very very calm they just crawled around my arm slowly
       
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