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    Is this bad...

    HawkPokemon Jan 12, 2012

    1. HawkPokemon

      HawkPokemon Guest

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      I'm 13 and I have never been in a relationship, and I have never had my first kiss. I have liked girls but none have liked me.
       
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    2. APS

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      Don't get in a panic you've got plenty of time yet,enjoy your teenage years.
      So answer is No it's not bad.
       
    3. Shortie861

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      No it's not bad :) better to have your first kiss and relationship with someone who feels the same way as you do than with someone who really doesn't :) as APS said, you have plenty of time left yet :)
       
    4. Naiwen

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      I think you're better off single for the moment. I don't really approve of teens and preteens rushing into relationships.
       
    5. Elseb

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      HA! That's not bad at all, you're only 13. Don't worry yourself about these things, you will change a lot in the next few years.
       
    6. HawkPokemon

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      Thanks guys. Its just all the kids in my school are in relationships. Or have at least had there 1st kiss.
       
    7. APS

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      So that makes you someone above the norm :)
       
    8. HawkPokemon

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      I'm feeling a lot better about this now :)
       
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      No it's not bad at all. :) I agree with what Naiwen has said in this case. :) You got plenty of time left, you're still only a kid. Hell I'm 21 and I haven't had nearly as many relationships as my friends have. Doesn't bother me though :) The right girl will come along one day :) Same goes for you too buddy so don't feel bad or that it's 'un-natural' to not have had your first kiss or been in a relationship at the age of 13. :)
       
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      I can say the same thing as you. But I'm 21 and not 13. But I got college and work atm, so I'm to busy to really mind.
       
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      Imagine if he has sex with his girlfriend and has a baby out of wedlock, I mean, that's gonna be terrible for a teen. As a teen has to study and has other preoccupations than raising a baby and stuff so yeah. And the girl might sue him and he might get other complications with having a baby or a gf. XD
       
    12. igotaway

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      Are you serious? At 13 I was still playing with dolls (No I wasn't, stop embarrassing me!). Seriously, you don't have to worry at all. 13-year-olds being in relationships just sounds ridiculous to me. They're not mature enough to handle it, so you're better off this way.
       
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      Don't worry about it, it will happen but don't force the issue.
       
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      I didn't have my first kiss until I was 16, all of my relationships have been "long distance/online," and my first kiss has been my only kiss. Maybe I am being a it cocky here, but I wouldn't call myself a bad looking person. Things just take time.
       
    15. Naiwen

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      yeah it does take time. I mean, people shouldn't be rushing into relationships just because everyone else is having one.
       
    16. Shortie861

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      I agree Naiwen, sometimes with some people it can be that all their friends are in relationships and they just are not in one and feel left out or friends make fun of them and it makes them feel pressured to rush into it. I remember when I was at school many of my friends where in a relationship and they made out it was the best thing ever. I liked guys and guys liked me but I wasn't all that bothered about being with anyone during that time.
       
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      be with someone only when you'll feel ready and comfortable. Chose your guy or girl wisely as they say.
       
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      Is that bad? Nee it's very good. And a good advice from me: Stay that way till you reach 21 :p then you can go and gamble with live by meeting girls who in 90% of the time will totally turn your world around :D. The trick is to find the one who will turn it to better, and trust me when I say it's NOT an easy task :p