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    My Rant Blog

    Carrie Feb 10, 2012

    1. Carrie

      Carrie Quiet Chatter

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      So mad. I was reading my son's facebook messages. I know that was my first mistake. but he told his friend that he was going to call me today and say he had something behind his eye so he could come home from school. well about an hour after i read that.....he called. so i went to the school, dealt with his eye and tried to completely embarrass him in the process doing it. but now i will have to confront him about this and then he will know i was snooping. but he cant keep crying wolf.
       
    2. Naiwen

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      yeah, thats a bad behavior from children and you need to correct it. X
       
    3. Shortie861

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      Do you have any idea why he could be wanting to cry wolf? I agree he may not be happy about the fact that you was snooping but sometimes you may have good reasons for doing so and I am sure he will understand once you have confronted him even if at first he may not be happy with you.

      I hope it all goes well when you confront him Carrie.
       
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      Shortie could be right there may be a reason why he wants to cry of school.
       
    5. Naiwen

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      yep, maybe he's bullied or something? have you thought about it? as a student, I know I liked to complain and baww about school a lot and I know I did that a lot with my rents.
       
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      found out last night he had a test that he didnt think he would pass. i asked him how he thought he did and he said he doesnt know.
      he has been really rebellious lately, im struggling with what is normal behavior for a 14 yr boy for todays day in age.
      i know i have a 19 yr old boy but he pretty much grew up in his room from being grounded all the time or in foster care because of his aggressive behavior. its just tough being a somewhat/single mom with him acting this way.
       
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      in this case then I'd say you should discipline him and stuff. Or talk to him about it. Or just lend him a helping hand with his studies and everything,. Maybe it's gonna reassure him and stuff?
       
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      *UPDATE* although things have gotten better at school. The we couldnt figure out why he kept wanting to go to the park other than to see his school age friends, which is great and all, well......he spent the night at his friend ethans house this past weekend and the next day he comes out of his room and says, " guess what joy's uncle showed us?" we said what?...."he says.....1940's porn." he is laughing, not thinking this is a big deal. joy is ethans girlfriend , they are all in the age of 14 and 15. what they hell is joys uncle thinking he is about 30 yrs old. of course my husband wants to go and rip this mans head off, but decides that he doesnt want to embarrass kendall either, so we told him joys house is off limits from now on. we bought him a 3 month xbox live card and thankfully hasnt asked to go back to the park. so if any of you gamers that play xbox live keep a heads up for me on the username of lankendomash.
       
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      Oh wow, that is pretty irresponsible of her uncle to do something like that and especially to children of that age you would have thought he would know better.

      As much as it doesn't always seem like a good thing I think that is what alot of parents do nowadays just to make sure that they know their child isn't getting up to any other kind of mischief and also to put their own minds at rest is set them up on a console to give them something to do to keep them away from doing things they shouldn't be.
       
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      I agree with that, the uncle was being unresponsible and untrustworthy. I mean, showing porn to children.
       
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      I REALLY wish I was closer sis. GRRRR!!!!!!
       
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      Oh I know you do.