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    On and off Relationships

    Naiwen Feb 4, 2012

    1. Naiwen

      Naiwen Chat Addict

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      So yeah, I knew some girls or guys on my life who would be in an on and off relationship. I mean, I don't get it, do you? I like more steady ones.
       
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      Do you mean those who date someone, break up with them, then go back to them? Yeah I don't get it. If you're gonna have a relationship that's like a yo-yo, maybe it's time to properly move on from the person and you just may end up happier in the long run. :)
       
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      yeah those ones. XDD
       
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      Oh my god yes. It's like "Get over it, you two are clearly NOT mean't to be together...." XD One day they're all lovey dovey next day it's all "OMG i f****ING HATE YOU AND HOPE YOU DIE!" XD
       
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      Can never understand these kind of relationships. If things are not going to work why keep them going, only prevents you from moving on with your life and these kind of people will only regret wasting their time on one person in the end.
       
    6. Naiwen

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      me neither. XD I mean, in case you're into a relationship, don't go on and off with it. X It counts as a form of cheating for me. XD
       
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      I have a friend, who in one year... probably broke up and made up with her boyfriend maybe twice. I do not get why she is still with him, as since they broke up twice, obviously there was something wrong with the relationship in the first place.... so why not move on?
       
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      That the Complicated Type , i know how it goes
       
    9. Naiwen

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      lol, reminds me of the "complicated" song.
       
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      im going to look for this song :D
      never heard of it

      Edit : which one btw ?
       
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      they should go get a life man, honest here...
       
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      Well, they are somehow dependent of the other, they must be receiving something that makes them come back. maybe one likes to feel the victim while the other likes to feel in control. They say love is blind. I agree it is not a healthy relationship. It could also be one of them is quite good to persuade the other person.

      I had a friend that tried to break up with her guy but he was mentally unstable and kept guilt tripping her and threatening to commit suicide. She just couldn't bring herself to leave him because she felt responsible and she was certain she was the only thing he had left. That is a powerful idea that make low self esteem people or overly kind and caring allow themselves to remain in a position of constant misery. They take solace in their role of martyr. Eventually she was able to break from the cycle and the guy got help. Both went separate ways and seem to be doing better as far as I can tell.