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    What can you learn from heartbreak?

    Beverly Oct 17, 2011

    1. Beverly

      Beverly Getting There

      Oct 7, 2011
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      Just recently went through a situation in my personal life that was personally devastating, very heartbreaking. It shouldn't have been, but it was. And, it took a long time to get over.

      The interesting thing i found out during the process was who my real friends are and who are just fakers.

      Ironically, the guy who hurt me so much and caused the heartbreak (not intentionally), actually became more of a friend after the fact. He talked me through it, helped me work out my emotions, and find a new happy place. He's constantly assuring me of his friendship and i think that was the one thing i had worried i would lose in the whole thing. I just didn't want to lose him as a friend.

      It's still a process. I don't think i will ever be over the situation, not even a little. But at least now, i don't wake up and go to sleep crying every day.