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    Would You Forgive The "other Woman/man"?

    Naiwen Jul 30, 2013

    1. Naiwen

      Naiwen Chat Addict

      Or your husband's/boyfriend's temptress or your "woman's lover"? I would never.
    2. robertson123

      robertson123 Regular Chatter

      If you are talking about them cheating on you or something then never it has happened to me in the past
    3. Black Angel

      Black Angel New Chatter

      If she knew about me, and pursued him anyway, then I'd be less than cordial to her, but either way, we are done.

      Life is too short to be with someone who didn't love or respect you or your relationship enough to keep it in their pants, and having had to take an A.I.D.S. test, because the guy I was with before my husband, was cheating on me, I wasn't going to take any chances, especially since his dad, cheated on his mom (who didn't protect herself since they were trying for another kid) and they both ended up with A.I.D.S. (he gave it to her) and died. So even though, I forgave him for cheating, I did so that, I could give myself closure and move on, but there was no way in hell I was going to take him back. Not even if my life depended on it.

      Once a cheater, always a cheater, and in his case, that was especially true since, years later, while dating, having gotten engaged, after he got married, while married, and after his divorce, he was still calling me, telling me how much he wanted me and he missed me.. and had the nerve to say that "it's not a crime to cheat on your wife."

      Even if "once a cheater.." isn't always true, why would waste my time by giving someone who cheated on me another chance when I can find someone else who would never do so? I didn't, and ended up meeting my husband.
    4. Kaynil

      Kaynil Quiet Chatter

      You know, I think I might. I think my real beef would be with my partner betraying my trust like that. If love is not longer with me it is pointless I force it. Just move on. Good luck to them and now time to think on me.
    5. TiggyDoolittle

      TiggyDoolittle Resident Weirdo

      Never. My ex ditched me & his kids 3 year ago for someone I thought was a friend. I still cringe when I hear her name mentioned.
    6. MamaFrankie

      MamaFrankie Quiet Chatter

      If I was into relationships, I would never forgive either of them. But I would be more understanding if he left me for another man.
    7. bilbo1152

      bilbo1152 New Chatter

      Never I'll never take someone back that's cheated on me

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      Shortie861 likes this.
    8. Maroon Caludin

      Maroon Caludin Chataholic

      Well...it IS healthier to let stuff go. Mind you easier said then done and I have a bad habit of holding grudges, but I think I would try, not for their sake, but for mine.
      Kaynil and Shortie861 like this.
    9. bharath

      bharath New Chatter

      If my wife had such things, then a kick to her in life and never she should with me. In these days many people are doing wife and husband even they knew had external affairs.
      Last edited: Oct 25, 2016 at 12:06